Circle of Blame

Getting caught in the Circle of Blame

With Kundalini we do not want to get caught up in the circle of blame with another person. When we do this we create a stalemate and a loop occurs where nothing is ever resolved for either party. It creates the ultimate lose lose situations. And if that were not enough when this pattern is left to fester and repeat it creates new negative patterns as well. This really takes both parties taking a step back to look at their part in this without the need to be right or wrong. Just really looking at your own stuff and leaving the other person's stuff out of it. Then being able to put yourself in the other person’s shoes to see their part in it. Then finally by sitting down and listening to them without putting your own stuff on it to come to a new understanding between you so that you can forgive yourself and the other person and move forward. No longer stuck in a deadlock of our own projections

About Elizabeth

Elizabeth Daulton Gonzalez is a Kundalini Awakened woman living in the Pacific Northwest of the United States. She has come to know and identify with her Kundalini Divine Self, as Araña, the Spider. Read more posts by Elizabeth.